Two weeks ago, Levi and I boarded a plane to Virginia to settle Levi in at James Madison University for his sophomore year. Philip stayed behind to look after Fran.
It was a difficult weekend for him because she became more weak than usual with a very low blood pressure. Her doctor was called and an IV was ordered. Philip really felt it was near the end for Fran.
I got home late Monday evening from Virginia and stopped in to see her. I found her sleeping comfortably. Philip took a fresh thermos of “strong stove coffee” (as Momma May calls it) into her early Tuesday morning on his way to work. The IV seemed to give her a boost. Her mind has been extremely clear since that episode but her body very weak.
Her main fear has been not being able to pull the help cord beside her bed because of her weakness. Philip and I talked things over and felt it was time to hire a “sitter” to be with Fran during the day when we are at work. Fran seemed relieved with our decision.
We hired a woman named Shelley that we have known from our church for the past 10 years. Shelley lived with her elderly Aunt for many years and cared for her up until her death. Shelley comes in and keeps Fran company, reads to her, assists her with her meals and keeps an eye on her care and care providers. Fran seems a bit more relaxed and enjoys the company.
Fran continues to talk about all of you back in Virginia and looks forward to your letters and cards. Please continue to keep Fran in your prayers.
Maribeth
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I'm sorry to hear that Fran is declining more and more. The end is inevitable for all of us, but it's heart-wrenching to even think about losing a loved one such as Fran. My prayers go out to all of you. I think of you often.
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